How does one succeed in life?
13.06.2025 07:06
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Can a bride cheat on her groom at a wedding?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
If sea levels were rising, wouldn't the acreage of coastal salt marshes increase? Are they?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Hangs out with loser friends.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Why do narcissists avoid talking about the real issues?
Ask yourself:
Procrastinates a lot.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
What is something you saw while on an airplane that you couldn't believe?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
What do you think of casting Emma Watson as the next James Bond?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
That's it for today.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Is the saying "nice guys finish last" true? Can good intentions always lead to positive outcomes?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
What I need from you?
Sean McVay: Matthew Stafford-Davante Adams relationship is "cool to watch" - NBC Sports
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Why are white women so hard to date?
Does not procrastinate.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
What is the scariest thing that ever happened in your life?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Which current F1 drivers should switch teams based on historical patterns?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Making more friends is a goal.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Living to your full potential is a goal.